Remembering Jess

Not a day goes by when I don’t think about Jessica, but today on the 4th annversary of her death, I can think of little else.  If she were still with us, she would now be 26. I keep thinking about what she would be doing now, where she would be living and working, how often we would talk.  And then I come back to the realization that she is gone and that I will never get to talk with her again.  Each day it gets a bit easier to deal with, but the sense of loss will never go away.

From the Eisenhower Era

Chuck in 1958I was rummaging through some photos tonight and happened to find this shot of yours truly that was developed in May of 1958, and judging from the smart summer attire I assume that it must have been taken right around that same time.  That makes me about 3 1/2 years old in this photo.  Oddly, I still remember this event distinctly, and it is probably my earliest memory.

Note, if you will, the highly symmetrical and well-polished skull – the sure sign of a true gentleman in the making.

Bloodbath

So there I was, diligently working away on an assignment for a class I am taking in graphic design. I was attempting to trim a piece of stock with an X-acto knife and not paying as much attention to what I was doing as I should. Having no way to differentiate paper from meat, the blade went just as it was directed and sunk into the side of my left index finger, peeling away a slice of yours truly the shape and thickness of a sliced almond, leaving it attached by a tiny hinge.  And bleed – oy! Blood everywhere.  I did a yeoman job of reattaching the stray piece with some super glue, and headed to the ER to see if they could do a better job.  I ended up with a tetanus shot, a prescription for antibiotics which are apparently used for all hand injuries, and a more skillful taping of the escapee into place.  My typing and scratching will not be up to par for a few days, but it could have been much worse.